What are you – male or female?

I had been looking at my mounted 4’ x 8’ trailer for over a month. I was not there the day the guys loaded it, but they informed me it was fully packed with remnants from the building in my Eco Village in the country I am rehabbing.

“I can do it” I cheered myself – just take it to the dump, how hard is that?

“Do you need a vest or a hard hat?” She questioned at the front office weighing station.

As we cut the tender fresh leaves of lettuce, swiss chard, nasturtium tips and cilantro for our salad from the tree of life, I felt like a farmer from the future. Here I was in Pennsylvania at a Hydroponics workshop standing next to a Tower Garden full of live food sprouted in the green house only a few weeks before my arrival. The flavor, texture and scents where out of this world. The Jetsons would have been jealous.

Hydroponics is growing fresh veggies, fruits or herbs without soil just

I met the most amazing individual just over a month ago.

I squinted and crept forward until our bumpers almost touched….I read out loud:

Some things are meant to be…

And me caring about what you think isn’t one of them.

I laughed hysterically with a deep and abiding appreciation for this person’s ability to clearly know their boundaries. As recently as a few weeks ago my reaction might have huffed something like this….”Well, what a jerk, how unthoughtful and uncaring!” I am learning that a vital survival skill is self government in all situations and under all circumstances.

I recently went to a new dermatologist, Dr. Bell.

Set goals, create deadlines, and generate a Master Plan.

What will happen in the future?

A stray dog trotted down our country road, a white pit bull with a splotch of brown over his left eye. He ran after my truck as if he had been dumped on the roadside, hungry, tired, confused, forlorn and disoriented. The desperation in his trot was sad, he longed for a new home, a cool bowl of water and a potential place to lay his weary head.

February is a time of the sensual scent of roses, red cheerful hearts on cards, playful red ties and red dogs.

Save your relationship! Ever read the book The Five Love Languages?